Rule #1: Show some skin (just not too much)
our skirt should be no shorter than fingertip length when you stand with your arms to your sides.
Your top should show no more than 40% of your bust.
Rule #2: Find the right proportions
Proportion refers to the way your clothes work together in length, width, size and volume.
For example:
Don’t
- A short skirt paired with a short top tends to look slutty.
- A long skirt paired with a long top looks dowdy.
- A full skirt paired with a full top makes you look heavy.
Do
1. A short skirt should be paired with a more covered top.
2. A skimpy top should be paired with a more covered bottom.
3. A tight skirt should be paired with a fuller top.
4. A tight top should be paired with a fuller skirt.
Rule #3: Wear luxurious fabrics
The final piece of the sexy puzzle is the fabrics you wear.
Think slutty and what comes to mind? A spandex skirt, barely there glittery top, and patent leather stripper boots, right?
Sexy, on the other hand, is associated with luxurious fabrics like silk, velvet, lace, and cashmere.
When shopping for clothes, look for fabrics that are rich and sensuous – rather than cheap and tacky.
Final thoughts …
The bottom line is that you are NEVER too old to be your sexy femme self. Just be sure to keep it classy.
As always, I’ve love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Please leave me your comments below!
And if you’re already mastered the art of sexy ageless dressing, don’t forget to include a photo. ??
